Want Our Children as We Wish

How many of us unknowingly pressurize our children in all aspects of life? Parents are the guardians and guiders of their children, but does that mean they can completely control them?

      Never, One of the most common issues in the 21st century is the pressure children face from their own parents. Every parent wishes for the well-being of their children, but that doesn’t mean they should dominate them. Excessive pressure can be more harmful than we realize.

If we want our children to grow into respected and successful individuals, the first step is to teach and guide them from childhood. According to neuropsychology, the critical period of brain development occurs during childhood. Learning at this age can help children become more successful and adaptable.

What is the critical period?

Studies show that childhood is the best time for the brain to adapt to new experiences and information. This is why children can quickly learn and absorb everything during their early years. Learning during this period enhances brain development. However, this does not mean that learning is impossible later in life; it simply means that early learning is more effective.

What to do...

• Maintain good communication with your children.

• Teach them the difference between right and wrong from a young age.

• Listen to them patiently.

• Understand their interests and preferences.

• Allow them to express themselves and be independent.

What not to do...

• Do not pressure your children.

• Never compare them with others, as this can cause stress and low self-esteem.

• Never judge them without first listening to their side.

Guiding without excessive controlling can help our children blossom into their best selves..